Also, as specialists suggest – keep records of all your online conversations.
Research where you're going and familiarize yourself with local customs, traditions and dangers.
These could be sometimes more or less elaborate and it’s up to you to uncover and avoid them.
The common request being that “you are her last hope” and nobody else can help her with money at that moment.
Here it would be somewhat reasonable to see such a relationship as an illusion, and yet again… One where there is a reciprocal feeling of love and commitment to each other. So, the fact that at this moment there is no clear plan of how and when you’ll close the distance, doesn’t mean that you should give up and label your relationship as an illusion.
The realness of a relationship is not necessarily determined by your possibility to see each other in person and have sex regularly, or hang out and watch movies together, but more importantly by a reciprocal feeling of belonging to someone you deeply care about, at least for a while.