Even if you’re just people-watching on your own, doing so with a smile and open body language will indicate that you’re actually having fun and that will make you seem more enticing to the people around you.Keep in mind: you can’t just sit around and expect women to do all the heavy lifting for you.
This doesn’t mean that you need to be an extrovert in order to be approachable; introverts are just as capable of indicating that they’re enjoying themselves, even if it means they’re in a smaller group or positioned away from the main crowd.
But, despite social progress and the ardent wishes of many, many men, the accepted cultural narrative places the onus on men to make the first move.
And in fairness, there are women who simply approach men, and the social and cultural barriers that discourage women from making the first move.
As I’ve said before: there’s being good looking, and then there’s being attractive.
One is about your physical looks and the other is about your overall presentation.