If a relationship “makes you” crazy, neurotic and paranoid, it is inevitable that the relationship will fall apart (and it will fall apart even quicker if you on your crazy, neurotic, paranoid state of mind and blame him for it…) Fill your life with activities you love, people you love, etc. I remember one girl that I at first, but found really attractive.Fill your mind with love for yourself – the woman who wants love from the world but cannot bring it about in herself will be forever thirsty for love… We eventually hooked up and it was actually pretty awesome… The important thing is not to confuse “liking you as a person” and “feeling attraction for you”. I’ve had women I’ve loved as people but couldn’t force an ounce of attraction for them if I tried. This is similar to what I was saying at the first part – when you ASSUME he wants you, you are far more likely to have him end up wanting you. Because when you think you’re hot, you come across as confident.The real issue here is what is the problem that In other words: If you can have the ones you don’t want wrapped around your finger as love slaves, then something about you “wanting” someone is what’s causing the real problem here.Let’s examine what those common problems are: He’s out of my league / I’m not good enough for him– Mindset is everything in dating.I never told her this, but I was never into fair-skinned girls with freckles – just not my type. And the power behind how she got me so wrapped-up on her was on this powerful assumption.
If you can master what I’m explaining here, you’ll have that power too. So there you have it – why he doesn’t like you and what to do to turn the scales in your favor.
If you’ve been falling into the trap of telling the only-the-ones-I-don’t-want-want-me sob story, STOP IT and never do it again. who have never experienced having men obsessed with them, chasing them, idolizing them… You have experience a type of girl that the vast majority of other women don’t have.
Instead, start “brainwashing yourself” into this belief: The ones I want the most will find me irresistible and they want me, . So if you just stop telling that sob story to yourself and act and BELIEVE around those that you want using the same vibe as the ones you didn’t want, then you’ll get the same result.
Now, you may say, “Eric, even if I repeated that to myself a thousand times it would still not believe it.” Why not? And the more in-demand a guy is, the more he’s craving to meet a girl who actually feels like a worthy partner to him. I’ve known girls that would obsess over guys – chasing, checking their texts, etc… But most importantly, they loved the reassurance to their ego – having their “prize” like them back validated them as being good enough in the world.
You’re only not good enough when YOU decide that you aren’t good enough. until he started liking them back or showing signs of commitment. I’m not here to judge, but if that’s your mindset, then I think you’re best course of action is to really examine yourself and see if you have an issue becoming vulnerable to people or opening up. OK, when he was interested, you were living and enjoying your life.