Long story short, it involved going to her sex dungeon and being locked in a cage while she choked me and her husband relieved himself on me.
The message ended in the most English way imaginable: "Do let me know if that sounds like your cup of tea". Call me a prude, but urine-soaked homoerotic strangulation is not my cup of tea at all.
There is no registration required to look through the ads, but some contact details are hidden.
Ads must be changed every six months or they are removed from the search pool.
One person I know went on the site, answered as many messages as she could manage, didn't bother writing a profile, found a guy with a 99pc match, and is still with him today.
As for me, well, I think my experience of the site was typical.
The site as an absolute hive of polyamorous kinksters, furries and other assorted people at the odd end of the dating site pool.I met one woman who was boring, one woman who almost bit my finger off over dessert, and the girlfriend I’m with today.I got what I wanted from the site – although it wasn't always the most comfortable experience. It works, but you have to be willing to sort a lot of wheat from chaff.It seems that the world's more extreme sexual daters have found safety in the OKC numbers game and gathered in one place to pester each other. When you sign up to the site, as well as drafting the normal essay about how great you are and uploading four out of focus photographs from that period in 2006 when you were hot, you answer a raft of multiple choice questions.These range from the fairly ordinary (“Could you date a smoker?