During the 1990s, many of us were introduced to a new generation of Disney princesses — Ariel, Belle and Jasmine.
We also met the handsome, confident men who swept them off their feet.
A person who could accept God's forgiveness and grace and walk a new path had as much to offer as someone who had committed fewer trespasses.
Don't overlook sin issues in a potential mate, but also consider how a man or woman deals with his or her sinfulness.
The "faithful ending" is what happens as you pursue faithfulness in every area of life, including romance.
As you keep your eyes open for a spouse, be faithful to obey God's commands.
These princes didn't necessarily have good character (or bad), but they offered the women "happily ever after." In "Trading in Your Fairy Tale" I wrote: Even though a fairy tale is defined as 'a children's story about magical and imaginary beings and lands,' it seems Christians have bought into the concept when it comes to romance and marriage.
We've confused the 'fairy tale ending' with what God offers us — the faithful ending.
Repent, seek forgiveness and allow God to shape you into a righteous person who will be a blessing to your future spouse.
As you search for a spouse, look for someone who serves and someone you can serve. These characteristics produce fruit in this life: wealth, popularity, status, a nice house, cool friends.
We all notice people who "have it all." The attractive ones. But accomplishments are fleeting and say little about the person's character.
Help mate, in contrast, is defined as: "a helpful companion or partner." In Genesis, God established the concept of a spouse — particularly a wife — being a helper.
There are a lot of ideas floating around out there: Marry your soul mate. The problem is, when that feeling fades (or you didn't have it in the first place) you may wonder if you married the wrong person and believe your soul mate is still out there.