Whatever your answer is, that’s the main cause of your behaviour.
If your answer is something like “to find the one”, you’re gonna come across as needy.
Two, they don’t want to get serious but want the other benefits of dating.
Let them know what you’re looking for and pull back a bit.
1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.Watch for these milestones, and you’ll know if the casual dating phase is almost over.The final milestone is when you know it’s official – whether you say it’s a serious relationship or not.Unscheduled Time Together When you start hanging out together without making plans in advance, you know things are getting serious.